Can you go home again?

May 6, 2025
May 6, 2025

Colleen Stegenga

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Colleen Stegenga

When you recall memories of home, strong emotions emerge. Home is where we formed our earliest memories, developed our sense of self, and learned how to navigate the world.

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Colleen Stegenga, MSW, LCSW-PIP, QMHP, is a therapist and owner of Embracing Change Counseling Services, with offices in Sioux Falls and Mitchell. Reach her at colleen@embracingchangecs.com or visit www.embracingchangecs.com.