Never underestimate the power of ‘Yes Dear!’

Sep 8, 2025
Sep 8, 2025

Barb Bierman Batie

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We’re not sure why, but in recent years Hubby and I have been sought out by recently engaged or newlywed couples for bits of advice on how to build a successful marriage.

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Barb Bierman Batie grew up near Battle Creek, Nebraska, and now farms row crops with her Platte Valley Farmer, Don Batie, northeast of Lexington. She has written for local, state, regional and international publications. She joined the Midwest Messenger crew in 2010. She can be reached at barb.batie@gmail.com.