Let them learn

Farm mom values giving kids freedom to discover

By Lura Roti, for South Dakota Farmers Union
May 11, 2024
May 11, 2024

Mothers Day Eide (1).jpg — Gerri Eide with her husband, Shon and children Bobbi, left, Hunter and Tanner.
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By Lura Roti, for South Dakota Farmers Union

Parenting in such a way that children know they have the freedom to follow their own goals has always been important to Gerri Eide.

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Mothers Day Eide (2).jpg — Hunter, Bobbi and Tanner Eide operate a business selling pumpkins along the highway each fall.
Submitted photo

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As we reflect on the women who raised us this Mother’s Day, South Dakota Farmers Union is celebrating the many women who support the state’s No. 1 industry – farm and ranch moms. From us at Tri-State Neighbor, we wish all the moms and caregivers a very Happy Mother’s Day!