Visits with Dad

Glenn Brunkow
Aug 13, 2025
Aug 13, 2025

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This week was Dad’s birthday, and I went to visit him. It was not a milestone birthday, but it was another trip around the earth and one that he was not supposed to make. At this point I am not sure what to think about that.

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Glenn Brunkow is a fifth-generation farmer in the Northern Flint Hills of Pottawatomie County in Kansas. He was a county Extension educator for 19 years before returning to farm and ranch full time. He can be reached at editorial@midwestmessenger.com.