Dad’s valuable wisdom

Jun 24, 2026
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Glenn Brunkow

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Since Dad’s passing, I often remember things he told me.

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Glenn Brunkow is a fifth-generation farmer in the Northern Flint Hills of Pottawatomie County in Kansas. He was a county Extension educator for 19 years before returning to farm and ranch full time. He can be reached at editorial@midwestmessenger.com.