Sunday dinners: Reconnecting with what matters

Colleen Stegenga
Mar 15, 2025
Mar 15, 2025

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Remember Sunday dinners? Growing up, my mom prepared these gatherings for whoever could come—every single week. Church first, then home to get everything ready. This was no simple affair but a full meal including dessert, followed by cleanup and an afternoon snack.

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Colleen Stegenga, MSW, LCSW-PIP, QMHP, is a therapist and owner of Embracing Change Counseling Services, with offices in Sioux Falls and Mitchell. Reach her at colleen@embracingchangecs.com or visit www.embracingchangecs.com.