Repair project tests the bonds of marriage

Glenn Brunkow
Aug 6, 2025
Aug 6, 2025

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This weekend I have the honor and the privilege to be the speaker at a 50th wedding anniversary party. I must say I am a bit nervous about what I will say.

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Glenn Brunkow is a fifth-generation farmer in the Northern Flint Hills of Pottawatomie County in Kansas. He was a county Extension educator for 19 years before returning to farm and ranch full time. He can be reached at editorial@midwestmessenger.com.